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The foundations that have always supported us now look like the things we've commodified or made into luxuries, when in truth they are the necessary requirements if we want to feel well at all.

It starts with a walk. It starts with movement and sunshine. It starts with tidying up spaces, cleansing, clearing, organizing, and allowing our space to hold us rather than us holding it.

It looks like showering, a tall glass of water, the stretch you're resisting. It smells like real food and butter on the stove. It's nourishing and simple, and maybe more important than almost anything else you'll do today.

It feels like building the muscle of calling a friend, or journaling, or reading, sitting in silence, putting your hand on your heart, allowing things to just be, without action, for a moment.

It's in service to loved ones and strangers, saying hello to someone you can feel is struggling or lonely, and your five minutes changes both of you for the better.

It's doing something small that you're proud of every day, some physical task that demands you move through minor or moderate discomfort for the benefit of growth, achievement, and how tomorrow could feel as a result—and suddenly, an entire life from that.

It's in gratitude that might only be a brief moment. It might be the time you got outside today.

It's so small and so big, and so very foundational, that if we do not remember the physiology of our human experience, we will continue to pathologize it. Just because we want to make the human things—connection, sunshine, nutrition, presence, purpose, action, gratitude—not human anymore, doesn't mean they aren't the physiological backbone of what allows us to step into healthy functioning.